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My name is Romeo Barnes. I'm an author and a BJJ black belt with cerebral palsy. This blog is about my life balancing existence in two worlds. My latest book, My World is now available Amazon.com. Glad you're here, enjoy the journey.

Cerebral Palsy in BJJ

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  1. UnknownApril 12, 2013 at 4:37 AM

    Hello mister Barnes I am Vincent Carender I do jiu jitsu and I also box but am held back by my cp it hurts me quite bad sometimes worse then others please help me my email is vincent20@gmx.com please respond I need help my facebook is under the same email please help

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  2. my many facesMay 12, 2013 at 9:52 PM

    Vincent I sent you a request on Facebook accept it and I'll answer all your question

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